"Massaging and kissing the vulva (the external part of the vagina), and touching and caressing before beginning oral sex really helps. Don't forget the rest of the body either, especially the legs. While a lot of attention is spent on the the tip of the clitoris—the part located at the top of the vulva—it also has two "legs" that extend up to five inches inside the body, known as the "shaft.".
The right way to lick a woman's clitoris in order to bring her to orgasmic pleasure is to use the tip of your tongue if you want to be a little rough. The tip of your tongue gives your woman just the right amount of roughness and softness that she is looking for. You can use the tip of your tongue to flick against her to really get her going. Use your hand, fingers, or a sex toy to slide up and down or back and forth across your clitoris and clitoral hood.
Lay your wet tongue flat at the bottom of their vulva and lick your way up.